Sabtu, 04 Februari 2012

Is it?

Is it wrong to befriend with everybody?

Bad Habits

Each person has their own bad moments. Some may have no control of their emotion on an important time or there is a person who couldn’t be as faithful as their lover wish they could. If we encounter those bad moments, all that we could wish is just to turn back time or maybe just disappear forever. However the past has gone, and the present is all that you have. The best way is just to get over it and maybe try your best to fall on the same hole again.

But for some people, it seems that they couldn’t avoid those actions or even worse, it has developed into some kind of a bad habit. What I see is that those action could turn into a habit when that person keeps on having negative thoughts and some how it turned an action that they done subconsciously. There are people who keeps on telling their problems and I found something interesting from those stories. Even though they have different problems, but there is a similarity, which is that they know what they have been doing is wrong but some how they just won’t stop. For instance, there is this one person I know who keeps on having a broken heart, caused by a feeling to an opposite gender that developed too quickly which leads to a major breakdown when knowing that the one she “loves” is just not into her. Or maybe there is this one person who keeps on falling for guys that have a certain attraction for her, knowing that she won’t have a chance. This condition don’t just happened once or twice, it happened for a couple of times.

Those kind of action keeps on repeated again and again and again. It could stop, if one could find something to distract them. Maybe they could cook or paint or do something. Well that is just my personal solution which worked for me and I think it worked for now.


What do you think?