Senin, 13 Agustus 2012

Hmph

I feel like screaming this burdensome stuffs at you, just so you know.
Even thought maybe the reaction won't be good.

In to You

Early in the morning I was still in bed
You call me just in time when the sunlight comes
You said How was your sleep? I didn't do too well. Would you be a friend and take a walk with me?"

My friends they all been telling me that you're no good
You broke a lot of hearts and you don't even know
I refuse to believe any of that is true
But I'll hate it when they're right and tell me told you so

I don't want to be a victim of a broken heart
I don't want to put myself into another mess yeah
I don't want to be a fool and make a big mistake
I've should've known better, but it's allright
Cause I'm in to you

Early in the morning I was still in bed
We've talked about an hour till my ear turns red
You said "It's getting late, I'm gonna have to go. I'll be getting ready so how 'bout that walk?"

My friends been telling me that I should let you go
You broke a lot of hearts and then you run away
I refuse to believe any of that it's true
But I'll hate it when they're right and tell me told you so

I don't want to be a victim of a broken heart
I don't want to put myself into another mess no
I don't want to be a fool and make a big mistake
I've should've known better, but it's alright
Cause I'm in to you

Early in the morning I was still in bed
The thought of you remains the biggest mystery
I was left unsure of all this thing would go
I guess I'll think about it when I walk with you

Sabtu, 04 Agustus 2012

LDR (Problem?)

Long distance relationship, ato yg biasanya disebut LDR bisa dibilang menjadi salah satu nightmare buat beberapa orang yang pacaran. Yaaa walaupun ada beberapa hal yg jauh lebih menyeramkan, but hey, LDR is a freakin hard obstacle man. I strongly recommended for you all to avoid it. tapi kalo udah yakin kalo lo sanggup dan bisa sih, silahkan aja. 

Nah tapi LDR itu sendiri itu apa sih? Yang pasti sih itu keadaan dimana seseorang memiliki jarak yang mayan jauh sama kekasihnya. Orang-orang punya definisi dari "jarak yang jauh". Ada yang nganggap kalo antara Jakarta-Bandung itu LDR, tp ada juga yang nganggap kalo pacaran bisa dibilang LDR kalo mereka udah beda pulau atau negara (itu sih menurut gw). Tapi apapun itu definisi jarak yang jauh buat lo, gw rasa kendala dari LDR itu sendiri sih yaaa sejenis lah. Paling kalo semakin jauh jaraknya, makin banyak juga masalahnya.

And now, gw bakal mencoba menyebutkan masalah-masalah yang biasanya muncul selama LDR-an:

  • Rasa kangen yang berlebihan, berakibat galau liat orang lain pacaran.
  • Ketergantungan sama pacar, jd terkesan overly attached. Biasanya kalo sms sering gak nyantai banyaknya.
  • Bawaannya curiga terus, kalo pacar lg sama cowo/cewe lain biasanya negative thinking. Sering mikir pacar selingkuh.
  • Haus akan perhatian, ngebuat lo jadi melakukan hal-hal yang gak diperluin buat dapet perhatian dr orang-orang lain, apa lagi dari pacar lo sendiri.
  • Suka boong, kalo pacarnya galak sering boong kl lg sama cowo/ cewe lain. Ato gak sering boong lg gak pergi gitu.
  • Upgrade dari haus akan perhatian, biasanya jadi caper ke lawan jenis. Terus malah jd kyk HTS-an sm orang lain.
  • Bawaannya uring-uringan, jadinya ngerepotin orang lain.
  • Nganggur di malem minggu, I don't know if it's a blessing or not.
  • SELINGKUH!!! (no need to say anything)
  • Dan banyak lagi.
Well, itu sih menurut gw masalah-masalah yang mungking muncul. Gw yakin masih lebih banyak lagi, any ideas? Dari sekian banyak masalah yang gw tulis di atas sih menurut gw cmn dua solusinya, which is:
  • Gak usah LDR, mudah bukan?
  • TRUST EACH OTHER!!!
But hey, skrg teknologi udah canggih kok. Ada skype, bbm, whatsapp dkk. Dengan itu semua, LDR lo bisa lebih lancar. Kalo teknologi dan hal di atas gak ngebantu, i got nothing else to offer. Because it sure helps me through my LDR life ;)